I miss the sun

A big Catholic church we visited with one of our investigators

The time is flying by for me, each week I am surprised that it is already Monday again and I can email you again. The work is good here, but I am afraid it might start to slow down a bit. It is starting to get cold. This week we had some half rain/ half snow. My companion called it wet snow. It was cloudy and gloomy all week but it’s not a big deal. It is only going to get more cold and gloomy :)  I realized last winter, when it is cold and cloudy and the days are shorter, that I really missed the sun. It doesn't help to go stand outside in the sun because it is cold and the sun doesn't heat you up very well. I miss that part about Arizona. You can go outside and enjoy feeling the heat from the sun. Of course you can do that in the summer here, but winter time it is too cold to enjoy the sunlight. Anyways, we had our Open Door Day this week and it was a success :) We had a few people show up and we even had the director of Religious Affairs for Irkutsk show up ( I think that is his title). Anyways he seemed to be impressed by what we are doing here and he said that he would see us again. That sounds pretty good to me :)

We visited one of our members today who owns his own pawn shop. He wanted to show us something new that he got and he wanted to sell it to us.  Russian Gas Masks! Pretty cool.  He said they are modern and I think they would make a cool Halloween costume or something. If anyone out there is reading this and wants a 100% authentic Russian Gas mask, they are on sale for 800 rubles and I can get it for you :)  

The green hood is for the winter time, so that you don't freeze. Pretty cool!

I am not too sure what to write this week. We had a good week but not a whole lot happened. We are creating plans, working with people to put the plans into action and we are checking progress to see what needs to be changed in order to continue to succeed. We started a new plan to get the branch here on its own two feet and not leaning on the Missionaries for assistance on easy tasks. It should be fun but it will be a big change and I am not sure everyone will like it.  Oh well. 

Summer mode.

Oh and about the blood moon, I know that about 12 hours ago (Sunday night) it was a Chinese Celebration that had something to do about the moon. The moon was really big here but it wasn't red. Maybe it will be tonight (Monday Night), I will keep my eyes peeled. We have a member here who is Chinese and he speaks English and he told us he would bring us some Moon Cakes that his parents sent him from China. Sweet! 

Anyways I hope you have a wonderful upcoming week and I hope General Conference is inspiring as always. President Perkinson always asks us what we learned at a meeting that wasn't exactly said. Just because you heard something, doesn't mean that is necessarily what you learned. You can learn a lot from listening and thinking about how the teachings of the prophets apply in your life instead of just how it applied to those people in the scriptures.

I love you all. 

Elder Gardner

Teach a man to fish

Hey there!  I am good and happy and healthy. My week was pretty good, less chaotic than last week for sure. This week the Assistants came into town and we had a split with them. I got the chance to work with Elder Mateer. He is from Britain and he is pretty cool. We also had a good Zone Conference with all the missionaries meeting here from Irkutsk, Angarsk and Ulan-Ude.  Zone conference was super good. President Perkinson has such a strong testimony and it really helps us remember why we are here and what goals we have.

Our meeting was in Irkutsk at the church building here. And yes I have been eating vegetables - I can't eat only chocolate bars, as much as I wish I could. Ha ha.

I am not too surprised that it looks like snow is coming. It is cold here. J  I remember in Nakhodka, I got there the first week of October and we didn't have snow yet and I am hoping that it waits that long here, too.  As soon as the snow starts, it won’t go away until May. It is a real problem in my opinion. In Nakhodka they had poor street work. The snow piled up and only late into winter did they start cleaning the roads and sidewalks. Hopefully it will be a bit different here in Irkutsk.

When I was a Zone leader I think we had 8 missionaries in our zone. But at the Zone Conference there were 21 people. Haha I am glad that we are getting more people here working.

Of course I am happy that we have more missionaries working here but I had a worry this past week. I realized that the branches are dependent on us and it is not good at all. We need to help the branches but more than just help them by setting up chairs and stuff, we need to help them stand on their own two feet. I think that is the key to giving them real help. It brings me back to the old Chinese proverb: Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day, teach a man to fish and you will feed him for a lifetime.

Right now we are just giving the Irkutsk branch fishes, but we need to buy them a really pretty fishing pole and give it to them. That will be better in the long run. This week one of our church leaders asked if we could get some bread and bring it to the church for sacrament. We said of course we could help but that it would be better for him to give the responsibility to a member instead of missionaries. His reply hit me like a ton of bricks. He replied "The members already are coming to church. You expect them to buy bread too? That is just too much".  After picking my jaw off the floor we went and got some bread. I was a bit upset that one of our church leaders had this kind of attitude about church attendance and I really shouldn't have let it bug me.  I realized that he was doing what he thought was the norm. Normally at churches here people just come and take the sacrament and go home and that is that. Our LDS church is different. We expect a lot from our members and I can't get upset at our members here if we haven't taught them this principle yet. I thought also about the talk by Elder Uchtdorf from a few conferences ago. It is titled "Come, join with us". Give it a quick read if you haven't already. 

Thanks for the advice on setting goals, I will try and incorporate that into our upcoming district meetings and work. We worked on that a little bit this past week, which goals we have and what we each need to do in order to make these goals work out.  It was good but I think we get quickly discouraged when no matter how much we try to help the members, they leave church 2 minutes after taking the sacrament. That happened this week. We blessed and passed the sacrament and before the first talk was over there were about 5 people who had already left. After the first talk some lady got a call on her phone, she answered it without getting out of her seat and she wasn't speaking quietly. She then said "No I am not busy" and stood up and squeezed out of the row and walked into the hall to finish her conversation the whole time just chatting on the phone. Just before that a member was making big hand gestures waving at someone across the room and doing the super loud "Whisper" thing trying to get this persons attention. She was whispering but in reality it was louder than if she would’ve just spoken normally. She wanted that person to turn the AC off. The person turned off the AC and a few minutes later this lady stood up and changed seats anyways. I don't know it bugged me a little bit. After church we were trying to have a missionary meeting and in the hallway there were kids running around slamming into walls and screaming and it was bugging me too because the parents were doing nothing about it.

It hit me that this branch is still relatively new and I need to be more tolerant when they make mistakes because they don't understand yet. I am sure that is how Jesus felt sometimes when teaching his Apostles. They didn't understand everything completely but getting upset doesn't help. It only helps if we show them a good example and teach them correct principles so that they can learn to work independent of missionary help. I hope you have a good week and thanks for showing me the book "How to Win Friends and Influence People" all those years ago :)

Yesterday we had a great day, we met with one of our members whom we haven't seen in a long time. He is studying to become a doctor, and he is already getting his hands in there practicing a little bit. He is 20 and he is pretty cool.  We also went to visit a member who hasn't been coming to church for a few years. We invited him to come to our Open House day at church on Wednesday and he invited us in. Turns out he is a way cool guy! His name is B  and he was one of the original members here in Irkutsk when the church first opened up here over 10 years ago. He has a sweet mustache too haha  You can't see his lips when he speaks, his mustache just dances when he speaks haha.  He said probably 15 times during our meeting "My American Friend" in English - he is a pretty cool guy :)

I am a fearless world traveler! I have found myself able to sleep about anywhere. I have slept on trains, on planes, on busses and I even fell asleep on a lesson or two back in Nakhodka when I didn't understand what was going on and the member just wanted to talk and talk and talk. I can sleep sitting up, or laying down, or with a book in my hands, or even without anyone noticing J  Haha I haven't had any sleep problems and I am very thankful for that. Then again, sometimes I fall asleep when all I want to do is stay awake. I don't really have any control over that and I wish I did.  

Anyways, I am glad to hear that all is well at home! Keep up the good work and remember...Be a missionary always and when necessary use words.

I love you

Elder Gardner

 

Lot's of Travel

This week was a great week.  I was busy 24/7. Unfortunately, we didn't have a ton of time to meet with our church members and serve them but we worked in different cities and that was really fun!  

Last Monday night I left for the airport and the other elders took me there. I went through security and after that I was on my own for 6 hours or so.  It was weird being by myself.  It has been a long time since that has happened.  J   I could just walk on over to the vending machine at the airport and I didn't have to ask anyone to watch me or come with me. I felt like I didn't know what to do.  I could walk wherever I wanted. Nobody cared. I could go to the bathroom and take as long as I wanted because I didn't have anyone waiting for me. Ha ha.  Super strange. 

Anyways, I flew to Khabarovsk and met the missionaries and from there flew to Vlad. I worked in Artyom for a few hours and get yelled at a couple times and then went on out to Korea :)  Artyom is a small city and there are a ton of Jehovah Witnesses. People think that we are "J-Dubs" and get upset - but that’s okay we met a couple really nice people too. Upon arriving in Korea we booked it on over to the temple and made it in time to go shopping at the distribution center. I bought a pocket size set of scriptures for myself and some tie tacks for members in Irkutsk.  Then we had a chance to go do some work in the temple and it was super cool.  My first time in almost a year! I miss the temple, it is such a peaceful place to be. After that we got some Micky-D's and went to bed. We didn't know it but there was a guy in the temple who is Russian and he was staying at the temple for a whole month before going back to Khabarovsk. He knew a few of the Elders who were with us and it was a cool little reunion for them.  

On the trip back from Korea to Irkutsk I stopped in Khabarovsk again and spent a day there working. We met a wonderful lady on the bus from the airport to their apartment and we got to talk with her about her baby. It was the cutest baby I have seen in a long time.  She loved talking and laughing haha. Anyways I finally got back to Irkutsk on Thursday at midnight.  On Friday during the day we worked. Then Friday night we went to the train station and hopped on a train headed to Ulan-Ude. We got there 8 hours later at 7 am and spent the day there working with the Elders. Super fun.  I had a chance to meet one of their investigators who LOVES American Football. He had a Giants jersey, hat, and a real helmet too. We played some catch and he seems like a super cool guy. We always seem to find the coolest people in Ulan-Ude. Anyways, we took a train back late on Saturday night and got to Irkutsk at 7 AM Sunday morning. We went home, showered, studied and then went to church to have a ward council meeting. This week was definitely not a boring week.  J

I had a wonderful opportunity to Skype with President Perkinson last week.  We also had on the line a member of the mission presidency who is Russian.  We talked about how to help one of the members in a different city with his debt problems and I could just tell that President Perkinson was in the zone. Financing and business issues are his bread and butter. It was cool to see him think it all through in his head and it was great how we all counseled together to come to a conclusion that was right for the situation. We as missionaries were there to translate for the 2 of them. It was a bit challenging but fun. How do you say "Captial Expenditure" in Russian? haha 

On a lighter note, I finally got a package sent off to you! I have been trying to do it for a while now and finally did it.  J   I wish I could pat myself on the back for being timely and quick... but I originally planned to send that package 2 months ago. haha.  

Speaking of Korea though, I hadn't thought about it but you are right! I am really accustomed to the Korean airport, I know all the landmarks that you see when looking out the window of the bus and all the bus stops on the way to the temple:) It seems like second nature - weird. I have not seen the northern lights yet, although I haven't been looking for them. Maybe I will keep my eyes out. We might not be north enough since we are pretty close to Mongolia.

There is no news about our investigators here in Irkutsk but hopefully next week I will have something to say :)

Oh yeah by the way, President Perkinson is flying out this Saturday for a Zone Conference. We will have a leadership meeting that starts at 9 am and then after that the regular meeting starts and we won’t end until 5 pm. I like the way he runs his meetings because he centers them on the principle of a "Council". Everyone adds what they think is important and it is a lot more interesting than having someone stand up and talk to us for 8 hours.

I have been a little bit sick for the past few days. I have a slight cough but I am eating lots of hot soup (I.E. Ramen) and drinks with Vitamins (Nesquick chocolate milk) so I should be healthy really soon. I hope you all have a wonderful week and stay happy, safe and healthy :)

I love you a lot and I am thankful for your great example to me!

Elder Gardner

Russian Life

Hey there:) We had a good week this week! Full of rain, and cold nights and jackets.  I have told a couple people about the microbursts that we get in Ahwatukee, and they don't seem to understand. It is pretty crazy and for us desert folk that we don't know how to deal with all the water, haha.  We have been getting lots of rain though, recently, and it is really nice. I think Summer is all gone and it will only get cold from here on out.

Oh, side note, Russian streets don't drain the water super well and I see people get splashed all the time from cars driving through puddles at high speeds. You might think that it is funny, I did at one point too until I became the victim and now I just feel bad whenever I see people get soaked. Another thing, I don’t think I have ever seen more amateur drivers drifting around corners in the rain in busy traffic in suped-up Toyota Corollas with self-welded on spoilers than here in Irkutsk. It’s fun to watch:)

 

Elder Protopopov in our crazy fog!

We had a good English practice where we had people split into teams and write down good conversation questions. We didn't explain the rules well enough because when we told everyone to put down the pens and share what they came up with we got weird questions. 

"Why don't you eat banana pills?" 
"How long would it take to walk to the moon?" 
"What's up doc?" 
They wrote down silly things like that. 

The rest of our week was alright. We finally found a new investigator that agreed to meet with us. His name is Maxim. He is a former Military pilot and submarine operator and now he is working for American Airlines. He seems like a way cool guy, the only problem is he doesn't come across as a super cool guy. He has ripped clothing and ugly fingernails and greasy hair. I mean I can't judge. He might have had serious trouble and that’s why he looks the way he does:) We are still meeting with him and we hope to be able to help him find a real desire to follow Christ. 

We are trying to come up with different ways to find people to talk to. Normally we come up to some random person on the street and we say "Hello we are missionaries and want to talk about God" Haha it doesn't work out too well. We started doing a survey and it helps us stop people easier. It is less intimidating when we say "Hi, we want to ask your opinion about a few things". We are trying to think of more ways though. If you think of any fun or creative ways to talk to people please send them our way. 

This week we also had a movie night. We started this tradition but it is going downhill pretty quickly. The first time we had this, about 30 people came and it was a big success. The second time about 15 people came and this last time there was 8. Maybe we will have to give the movie night a break for a while. It is such a shame that there are very few Church movies translated into Russian. We really want to see Meet the Mormons because we heard it was good, but that won't be in Russian for a long time. 

This is at Rio Grande... its kind of a Native American restaurant too pretty cool:)

I will be headed off to Korea this week and it will eat up most of my week. I will leave tonight at midnight. I am flying out by myself and will meet missionaries in Habarovsk after my 6 hour flight. Wish me luck! Hopefully I don't go to too many clubs while I am without my companion. Just kidding! I think it is cool that they trust us to fly alone. It wouldn't help if Elder Protopopov flew with me because that would just be another plane ticket to buy. President Perkinson is trying to cut down on expenses and make this mission very "efficient" (that is the word he used) He said this mission is the largest mission based on land size and is a mission that has probably the greatest capacity to be inefficient (I hope this is all making sense). It would be easy to spend lots of money flying here and there and that was what our mission was in the past. There isn't anything inherently wrong with that, but we could do better. He is focusing on "Streamlining" (another word he has been saying a lot recently) our mission and expenses. You can definitely tell that he is a businessman just from his vocabulary. Anyways, that is why I haven't been flying so much:)

I get back to Irkutsk on Friday early morning. I will work here for a day and then we are headed off to Ulan-Ude Saturday morning to do splits with the missionaries over there. I won’t have any time here in Irkutsk, but that’s okay! The work continues everywhere, not just in Irkutsk. 

One of the members posted two videos of the soccer game we played a couple of weeks ago.  Check out my skills. :)  (I am the one in the white shorts.)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=31&v=jzHRJ0KqQy8

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jo0qhosu21M 

If anyone who reads this blog understands Russian, then check out this cool website that one of our members maintains. It is the website for his soccer team that he created, Baikal +.  They are pretty cool! If you don't understand Russian then I would recommend going to Google Translate and typing in the URL. It will translate the whole website for you. Either Google Translate or maybe you could just look at the pictures and not read anything... like I did with most of my school text books:) The website is 

FootballonBaikal.ru 

Anyways, I’m glad you tried making that Hare Krishna cake.  It looks super tasty!  It looks perfect. I normally slather the top with jam so it isn't so plain. The options are really endless. 

Our trip to the Russian Orthodox Temple was really cool:) There are a ton of temples here in Irkutsk. Russian Orthodox, Roman Catholic, 7th day Adventists, Evangelists, Jewish Synagogues, Muslim Mosques are all found scattered across the center part of the city. Now all we need is a Mormon Temple:) There are really pretty paintings on the roof and walls of the Russian Orthodox temples and a cool little store inside. You can buy some candles and put them out in remembrance of loved ones or deceased people. You can buy a cross to wear around your neck, or maybe some icons that most everyone has in their house. The icons are to help people remember God and their faith. They have nice old ladies that work there too:) It's really a cool place. They also had a giant wall with an altar set up and a big gold and colorful painting on the wall. This is where the priest stands I think. I didn't take any pictures because I didn't want to be disrespectful and I don’t really know the rules there but Google Search it and I am sure you can find something.

 

Anyways, I am glad to be here in Russia. The people are great, the food is tasty and the Gospel is true even in Irkutsk.

I hope you have a wonderful week and stay happy and healthy:)

Elder Gardner

Russian Food

This week was a good week! We have been getting lots of rain and it is a nice break from the heat. Pretty soon the winter will start, it is already fall technically. There are lots of workers out on the streets who sweep the streets cleaning off the dead leaves and the city looks really nice. They have a good city cleanup program going on here. I was thinking about Dr. Trent the other day, I would love to chat with him and find out what his mission was like because it sounds like they were really different. I am 100 percent honest that I like being here. Russian people are really great if you get to know them. The culture is super cool and their lives are full of hard work, patriotism and dedication to family. We can definitely as a society learn a lot from the Russian culture and way of life. 
I am glad to hear that you have such good things going on in your life! It seems like time is simply flying by and I just can't grab on to slow it down no matter how badly I want to. 

Quick side note, you might notice I took a big amount of money out of my account, that was because the Ruble was up at 70 rubles in a dollar. Elder Protopopov and I found out that 70 rubles to a dollar is the highest it has been at for a long time so I decided to pull money out in an attempt to capitalize on the opportunity. You don't have to worry, I didn't break anything and had to pay for it. I just wanted to take advantage of a good opportunity. :) 

Today we are going to go to a Russian Orthodox Temple and I think it will be a really good opportunity. The more I learn about the church and its influence here in Russia, the more I am glad that it exists. Some Mormons might say, "It isn't the true church of God, we would be better off without it" But I am convinced more and more that all churches are a force for good in the world. Maybe they dont have all the truth revealed to them that would help them bring people closer to christ, but they definitely teach people that Jesus is their Savior and Redeemer. I think we all need a bit more love towards one another.

Yeah Elder Barr seems like a really cool guy. He was in a few Mormon videos on LDS.org and is in a band. They opened up for groups like Imagine Dragons and others. Pretty cool! Turns out they travel around and play music everywhere :) He’s a real life rock and roll star.

 

We were stuck in the airport with Elder Barr and also Elder Berrios. Elder Berrios is from Pima I think. Either Pima or Safford. I talked to him a little bit but we couldn't find any connections between who we know. Maybe if you talked to his parents you could find something else out. That Gila Valley part of Arizona seems so small that we are bound to know at least one of the same people. :)  

 

That’s pretty cool that we are getting hits on the Blog from people in the states and also in the Mother Land:) Pretty soon I will be on the Larry King show and I will be baptizing Putin as well haha. 

No, I haven’ been “Rhino’d.”  Most of the time when people find out that I am American they either frown or get interested and ask how I am liking it here.  Most aren't hostile. I haven't been the victim of violence, just insults.  When I tell someone I am from America most of the time they say something along these lines "oh you’re American? That’s interesting, you’re pretty gutsy to be here. Did you know that we are enemies?" People think that we are enemies but they don’t really treat us like enemies - most of the time.  I think the Russian people don’t like Americans just because that is what they have been taught. They are taught by their parents and the media and all through their life that we are enemies but I don’t think they actually believe it. I have noticed even when Elder Protopopov speaks to people, they are rude and mean to him.  It has helped me understand that there are people in the world who are upset and it doesn't matter who you are, they will still say mean things. Don’t get offended, just let the person go on their way and maybe at a later time you can talk to them. 

We have been switching up the food lately. Elder Brown taught me how to make some tasty white sauce before he went home. I have been making chicken alfredo :) Another favorite, which I didn't expect, is now Grilled Chicken on veggies. Just cut up your chicken into little cubes, season it with salt, pepper, and taco seasoning. Then cut up Veggies like cucumber and tomato and maybe some frozen veggies and put them in a bowl. Top it with your chicken:) I was hesitant to try it at first but before I knew what was going on Elder Protopopov made me a plate so I kind of had to try it.  It was better than I expected so I am happy.  I also learned from the Hare Krishna people how to make some good cake!  Super easy recipe: 1 cup of sugar, 1 cup of Манная Крупа (I googled it because I dont know how to say it in English. Wikipedia calls it Semolina. I think you maybe use it to make Cream of Wheat), 1 cup of milk or Kefir. 1/2 cup of vegetable oil,  1-2 cups of flour. You just mix it all up and you want the end product to be thick like brownie batter but not thick enough to pick up with your hands like bread dough. That’s the recipe they gave me but I always add vanilla and cinnamon and baking soda so that it rises and is a good tasty cake. I also add fruit into it, just cut em up and throw em in. Maybe even top the cake when it is done with some jam so it doesn't dry out too quick:) It is pretty tasty! Give it a shot!

 

At the stores you can buy bread rolls stuffed with either chicken and cheese, or mashed potatoes, or ham and cheese, or cabbage and mushrooms. Those are pretty Russian dished. Or maybe a Russian kind of fried rice called "Plov" although I know it isn't Russian. It is from a different country but I can't remember right now. Super good! We eat well enough here :) You just have to be smart enough to figure it out. In the beginning of my mission it was boring but now it’s getting better!

We haven't had hamburgers yet... that is something we need to try!

I really enjoy serving with Elder Protopopov. He is a great missionary and a great help to the work. I am glad to be his companion. People say I look kind of Russian so I am working on that right now. I just need to lose a little bit of weight and do my hair differently and get a better accent then I am good to go :)

I hope you have a good food filled week! I got really hungry typing about all the food I have been eating haha. I love you and miss you a lot :) I hope we are always trying to strengthen our own testimonies because that is the key to spiritual survival.

I love you and hope you have a good week! 

Elder Gardner  

 

 

 

New Companion

I am glad that you liked my letter last week.  It is always a good feeling looking back and seeing that I succeeded in writing a good letter.  :)  The party was a blast and we met a bunch of cool people. Yeah, the apartment situation is pretty good! We finally got everyone moved in and settled this past week and now we can focus on preaching the Gospel. By the way, I am now the District Leader instead of Zone Leader. My new companion Elder Protopopov is Zone Leader by himself.

This is where the party was last week.  Also, it is the soccer field where the Russian Olympic team practiced.

I honestly am not worried about what you put out on the blog. I write my letters so that they don’t break any of the rules. We only have a couple rules about using names and last names of people. We shouldn't say "Oh yeah we had a great lesson with Alexander Pushkin this week" because that is pretty specific, but it is fine to say "We had a lesson with Alexander" because Russians use the same 10 names on pretty much all of their kids. Sergei, Vladimir, Alexander, Konstantine, Peter, Paul -  all the stereotypical Russian names you can think of, those are the ones they use. I am not sure why, but if the Russian Government found out that I was teaching a man named Sasha then they would have no clue because there are 5 million Sasha’s in Russia. I am not worried at all about the letters I write home being too much information. Post away!

I think it is kind of funny that you never heard from the Brinton’s but with the Perkinson’s you have had good communication….you even breakfast together before they left!

Great view of Irkutsk. It's huge.

I was in the MTC with Sister Oler but never talked to her. She was 6 weeks younger than us so we didn't see each other often. We met in Angarsk 4 months ago or so... I don’t remember exactly.

It is the end of summer in a week from now. The leaves already starting to fall from the trees and the mornings are getting kinda nippy - but the days are still hot.  It sounds like everyone is just getting back into the swing of things back at home. Going to school, and all that fun stuff.   I did get that picture of Elder Brown with his sister. That’s so sweet!  I miss him even though it has only been 3 days or so.

This week was a good week although a bit hectic. We had to help the other elders move apartments. When President Brinton was here, he made the decision to move some apartments closer to center and closer to the church. This was a mission wide decision. Now that President Perkinson is here, he made the decision that we should all live in different areas of the city to be able to find new people everywhere. I can't say which is better or worse I just think it is interesting how differently they think and work.

Transfers were good this past week! We are on the second week of the transfer and just barely got started doing missionary work. We were on weird split kinda thing from Monday (When Elder Sitton and Brown flew out to Vlad) until Thursday (when the new missionaries flew in). We were working in Irkutsk and Angarsk and had to balance all the weekly activities between us and the sisters who were doing the same thing.

After all the missionaries got here, we took them to our house and had 8 missionaries sleeping there. Way too many – ha ha.  We didn't have enough beds, a ton of them were on the ground. Me and my companion woke up at 5 am to take two of the missionaries to the airport because they had a flight at 6 am. We took them to the airport and sent them off with tickets in hand and hoped for the best. Then as soon as we got home we got a call from President Perkinson saying that the 2 missionaries missed their flight and that we had to get back to the airport to pick them up. When we got to the airport we realized that they didn't miss their flight, the flight was just delayed. The missionaries were struggling to communicate because the people at the airport don’t speak English and the new missionaries just barely left the MTC.  They had no clue what was going on. We got there and tried to figure out what was going on but nobody knew why the plane didn't take off, or when it would finally get off the ground or what we were supposed to do. We were told to simply wait and they would tell us later. The flight got pushed back to 8 am.  Then to 12 pm. We were a bit upset when the airport folks told us that they lost the missionaries luggage. How could that be? They never left the ground. We had to go talk to a couple important people in offices up on the 3rd or 4th floors of the airport and they helped us out. Then they told us to come back at 2 pm because the flight wasn't leaving any time soon and they would have more information at that time. So we left and got some lunch and came back at 2:00 pm. Still nobody knew what was going on. We finally heard an announcement at 2:30 that the flight would leave at 5:30 so we waited until then and tried sending the missionaries through a second time. We finally got them through and could only hope for the best. We really wanted to  go through security with them to help them find their gate but it wasn't allowed so we could only pray.  A few hours later we got a call from the Elders in Ulan Ude that the greenies arrived safe and sound. Phew!  Only 12 hours at the airport and we got the job done. Haha.  That was my first day together with my new companion, Elder Protopopov.  Awesome.

The next day we helped the other Elders move apartments and that was fun but not as big of an ordeal. Everything was pretty straightforward just a bit warm weather.  All was good :)

My companion is good!  Super fun.  He speaks Russian and English and is done with his mission in 2 more transfers so I might be with him till the end. I am super excited to learn a lot from him. He doesn't have a crazy different palette than us. He likes tacos and burritos and chicken and veggies and fruits. It’s all pretty much the same. We haven't prepared anything crazy or out of the ordinary yet but of course it’s only the 2nd week:)  He has had tacos before and he says he loves them. Good!

About your seminar on Goals, I know there is a ton of stuff written about it in Preach My Gospel. Maybe that could be of use.  I think the most important part of goals is the evaluation and responsibility associated with them. I have set some goals for myself but sometimes I forget completely about them and it was completely pointless to even make the goals. We should check up on ourselves frequently to make sure we are on track and if needed we should change our actions.  With President Brinton as President of the mission, we had goals and he promised if we had 100% obedience then we would achieve those goals. For the most part it worked but we also felt a bit confined in our area of work. There were some rules made that weren't really understandable. For instance we weren't allowed to go to Game Night and spend time with the members. Most of the time, game night wouldn't be very good if people knew that the missionaries weren't going to be there. We thought it would be better to attend, but that was just our thoughts. Nevertheless, we still followed the rules. Now President Perkinson is saying that we should be finding new ways to contact people. We should be using all parts of our mind to be coming up with new ways to meet people and share the gospel. Game nights are a good thing and we should be forming those good relationships with everyone. It is pretty different and both these ways seem to get the job done. So there are different ways to achieve goals. I wouldn't say that there is one sure fire solution to get the job done and we should be keeping all of our channels open in order to reach our goals.

Here is a quote from one of the weekly letters of President Perkinson:

"The Lord is Hastening His Work. Far East Russia needs a Temple. Will we as a mission keep pace with the Lord’s Hastening? Or, will we insist on doing things the way they have always been done, or the ways we are accustomed to or comfortable with? Will we each learn, repent, change and teach more effectively the Lord’s way? Or, will we be so entangled in traditions and patterns of the past that we will be unable to keep up with the pace of the Lord’s Hastening?"

I really like that and I think it is important to be adaptable and flexible and not get stuck in a rut. The only thing constant in this world is change and we should be right there with it not getting stuck in the past.

I hope you all have a good week and remember that no matter how crazy your week gets, no matter how sad you may feel, no matter what kind of situation you find yourself in, there is someone who knows how you feel. Jesus Christ knows that you exist and he loves you. I promise that you can find peace and joy in reading about and studying the life of our Savior.

I love you a lot and miss you too!

Elder Gardner

Big transfers

I am always glad when I make enough time to write a big letter to you all. That makes me happy. Normally I am rushed and don’t have enough time to do everything I want, but a big letter makes me happy.  I am getting better about writing more quality things in my emails I think.

I wish I could tell you a lot about the people whom we teach but we don’t teach a whole lot of people haha. We have few members here but we meet with them often and some investigators who don’t really care about the lesson but we keep going :) There are some people who live here and they are satisfied with their surroundings. They don’t want to improve their life and they are happy being in the dark (metaphorically of course). The first half of my mission I was super set on trying to change them to believe in God. But that isn't my job. My job is to search out the elect children of God who hear the message of the Restoration and act on it because it is familiar to them. Because it is what they learned in the pre-earth life and they loved it then. It is our job not to convince the Atheists or false believers to come unto Christ. We can't do that. We don't speak Russian well enough. We don't have enough tact and eloquence to convince them to change their lives. Even if we could do that, we wouldn't be able to give them a testimony deep down about the truthfulness of the Gospel. Only the Holy Ghost can do that. We are here to proclaim the truth to all who will listen and help those who truly have broken hearts and contrite spirits. We are to go about doing good, being faithful, lifting up the hands which hang down, and strengthening the feeble knees. (D&C 81)

This transfer big things are happening! We are buying a new apartment in a different part of Irkutsk for Elder Gray and his new greenie. We found an apartment just a few days ago for them. It is a one room apartment but the guy did a remodel on it and it looks great. It is big and they are renting it out for 20,000 rubles (about $300) a month. Most apartments come with everything furnished and ready to move in. But 20,000 rubles, that is a decent price. We have another apartment where I am going to live and it costs 27,000 ($414)  a month. It is a 3 room and it’s really nice. The other one is smaller and about 20 minutes away from us in a different part of town. 

Apartment Hunting

I am getting a new companion. I will be in the same spot serving with Elder Protopopov (Протопопов). (All the O's in his name sound like "Oh" except the last one. That one sounds like an "Uh".)  He is Russian, from Moscow and he goes home in 2 transfers. Turns out when the Irkutsk Branch President served his mission in Moscow, he knew Elder Protopopov. Pretty cool!  Expect big improvements in my Russian language skills coming soon.   He could be staying with me till the end of his mission! Cool. Elder Sitton (Our 3rd in the companionship) is going home in 2 days. Back to Arkansas.

We travel a lot.

Chess seems to be a kind of big thing here. Lots of members play and they aren't too bad. I need to get better though.

We haven't gone to the circus yet unfortunately, and our rescue diver didn't come to English Practice yet but it’s only been one week. There is plenty of time for him to come.

My haircut was given to me by Elder Sitton. He cuts his own hair and offered to give me one too haha. It turned out good! And it was free :) 

This week was a good week. We had a big birthday party for the 2nd Counselor of the Mission Presidency birthday.  He turned 50 and apparently he is a big soccer player here in Irkutsk. He invited a ton of people to this party and there were little activities for the kids to do and a scrimmage soccer game going on in the background and it was a great chance for us to get acquainted with people whom we recently didn't know. There should be a video coming out soon. People took a ton of pictures and videos and it will be great to watch. Oh yeah we also had a few assignments to help prepare for the party. One of the assignments was to fill up a couple water balloons for the big water fight he had at the end of the party. When I say "a couple" I mean somewhere in the ballpark of 400 water balloons ha ha. The Russian water balloons were really like regular balloons though ha ha. They were super thick rubber and got super big but they didn't pop easily. We threw one up in the air in our apartment and it didn't pop when it hit the ground. I got hit a couple times during the water fight and it was just painful hahaha the balloon didn't pop and I just got hit by a big heavy balloon.

Branch 'assignment' - balloon prep

One of our investigators is almost homeless. His name is "S" and he had to move out of his house because drunk people who live on his floor always bug him. He hasn't been able to move into his new apartment because he hasn't gotten paid yet, because his boss is greedy and won’t pay.  There is a lot of dog eat dog mentality here. People not being true to their word. His boss said he would pay him 2 weeks ago and he keeps pushing back the date farther and farther, therefore our investigator has been living on the street for the past few weeks. We met with him the other day and as we are walking around he mentions that his birthday was that day! We bought him some bread, and a razor and gave him some of our left over lunch :) He is a great guy. I can't even imagine what he must be going through. He really wants to get baptized and always asks when he can get baptized.

It was great hearing about this year's high adventure.  It is weird to think that there are still young men’s activities even though I am not there. I just kind of assumed everyone came because of me and that they would end now that I am gone. :) ha ha Just kidding! I am glad they didn't have any bad/scary stories this year. Please send my love to all the ward especially to the Greenawalts. I haven't heard from them in a while but I hope they're doing good.

Our former investigator (now new member) “R” got the Aaronic Priesthood yesterday at church and it was super cool. Elder Sitton got the chance to give it to him before he went home. I also gave a talk yesterday about the Word of Wisdom. It is more than a list of things to do and to not do. There are a ton of talks written about it and the more I study about it, the more I understand how all-encompassing it is. It is a topic we could talk about for hours and not hit all the points! I urge you to study it.

I hope you all have a good week and learn a lot in your personal study of the Bible and Book of Mormon! There is always something new to learn. I promise.

I love you all and miss you dearly!

Elder Gardner